05 June 2009

No mid yr bonus for civil service..


This is really sad. First time in civil service and I have no bonus!

No 1 mth.. Its ok la... 1 mth is a little too much but not even 1/2 mth or even 1/4 mth? This is really depressing.

The GST and income tax is still ongoing and the same. The expenses are still the same. But the income is not same anymore. I wonder where the surplus has gone to! Why is there no help when in need for people.
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9:52:00 AM

04 June 2009

The Secret to a Happy Marriage


There was once a man and woman who had been married for more than 60 years. They had shared everything. They had talked about everything. They had kept no secrets from each other except that the little old woman had a shoe box in the top of her closet that she had cautioned her husband never to open or ask her about.

For all of these years, he had never thought about the box, but one day, the little old woman got very sick and the doctor said she would not recover. In trying to sort out their affairs, the little old man took down the shoebox and took it to his wife's bedside. She agreed that it was time that he should know what was in the box. When he opened it, he found two crocheted doilies and a stack of money totaling $25,000.

He asked her about the contents. "When we were to be married," she said, "my grandmother told me the secret of a happy marriage was to never argue. She told me that if I ever got angry with you I should just keep quiet and crochet a doilie."

Only two precious doilies were in the box. She had only been angry with him two times in all those years of living and loving. He almost burst with happiness. "Honey," he said, "that explains the doilies, but what about all of this money? Where did it come from?" "Oh," she said, "that's the money I made from selling the doilies."

So does that mean the women have to stop arguing and crochet dollies? And whenever the other half gets a little unreasonable does that mean I have to stop arguing and crochet dollies?

I think i beg to differ... I think nowadays i have gone past the days of arguing. When the other half starts his bang bang boo what i do is go to the kitchen, start cleaning and cooking. And when I serve him food, he knows he is in the wrong and says sorry. :)

Love is sweet after all.... I HATE ARGUMENTS.....
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9:36:00 AM